No one should put up with a phone call like that. I would treat it like you do a telemarketer at dinner time. "I am sorry but I can't talk to you when you are speaking in this way. Click."
This is not anti-db at all. If you let him talk like this, you are just rewarding his spewing. Would you let your children talk like that to you? Treat him like the child he is acting like.
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