Thanks all - Great advice- I am waiting to go to court with my petition for temp support and alimony- There is no legal seperation in my state. SE you are right the money is the only way he can control me- Now that I have had the baby my life can get back to "normal" as far as me working and possibly being around other men- He hates this- He called back about 30 minutes ago I did answer he asked why did I do the things I did to mess up our marriage. I didn't answer he asked about the baby and the fires and I answered/ He spoke with the boys then hung up.


who knows???


Love,lisa


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12