I can lend you my heartfelt support because I realize how hurtful WAS can be.
When my sons mother left 10 yrs. ago ( different sitch than now ) she also went and spewed venom like your H is doing to you. She would say and do very mean things, including taking my son and making me go through the courts to find out where he was and also keep my visitation. Needless to say she was full of accusations.
I applaud you for keeping an even temperment like you did. This is what I did most of the time and (like your husband) made her more pissed! After all these years we are cordial most of the time. But I swear she seems to get mad at me when things aren't going well at home with H. Transferance I believe....
Your H, like those of so many here, is lashing out at you because he can't do it to himself. The one he's really mad at... His actions are out of anger and cannot be predicted so make sure you are carefully aware!!
Nobody deserves to be treated like you were, especially a new mother!! Please talk to friends and family and take care...
You probably gave birth to the next great.....!!!!!
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Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
