1) Maybe. Some doctors have said yes, others have said there isn't a problem. One doctor said that she had Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), which can cause infertility. Lately, she has blamed me for us not having kids. I can accept part of the blame, but not 100%.
2) Before I started my own company I made 2x her salary. Now days we're about equal. Turn down in the economy, 9/11, trying to adopt and it not working after a year, depression, etc have not helped my business/finances.
3) When she initiated, it was more of a demand. "We haven't had sex in x months. .... " "I'm going to bed are you going with me?" Often when I did try to respond, she was already mad or said it was too late at night.
True, I didn't initiate very much and I should have.
As far as "reasons" from me... Too tired. Just ate a big mexican meal and felt bloated. Can we do it tomorrow?
