HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LisaLost]

I POSTED THIS ON MY OTHER THREAD BUT WANTED TO START A NEW ONE B/C THAT WAS MY HAPPY BABY THREAD



Thanks everyone for the baby comments!!!

Ok well- here goes- feedback needed please!!!!


I texted H about our son's Kindergarten grad on Friday. I gave him the time and such, I did this on Wednesday. He texted me yesterday evening about when he could see the kids and he asked about the fires. I did not text back, I got busy with dinner baths and the baby. I texted him again today to remind him about the grad tomm. he called and started inon me as to why I didn't call him yesterday after he text me b/c he had the day off and wanted to see the kids now- he did not text me until 7:00 pm and had been off all day. hummmmmm weird seems like he ould have called sooner right? well I told him I had gotten busy- well he started spewing his venom at me telling me he had consulted with an attorney and he didn't have to pay anything until the divorce was final and I was not calling him to try to hurt him because he didn't want me anymore, that he had found someone else. He called me a bad mother- said that he bet all I was doing was sitting around all day on my ass waiting for him to support me. _( well hello I did just have a baby a week ago!!!) he said I was a cold hearted bit*h and he hated me more than he could ever have thought. He said I am trying to control when he sees his kids. He said he hates me more and more everyday b/c he thinks of all the wrong things I have done to him and I make him sick- He said he will get me when we go to court- he said I am the most worthless person he has ever met etc.. You get the picture. I tried to defend myself at first then I just started agreeing with him and that pissed him off even more. He had so much hatred in him- he said all I cared about is his money and all he cares about is seeing the kids. He said he is happy in his newlife and I am mad because he doesn't want me anymore- that he has someone else- he then hung up.

He called back about 2 minutes later and I have been crying of course and he asked why I have been crying that no one can hurt me b/c I have no heart that his words could not have hurt me b/c once again I am a no hearted or a cold hearted person. I said that I understand your feelings but please don't talk to me like I am a dog and he said he would talk to me however he feels b/c to him I am a dog- lower than a dog. he just started in againon how awful I was and how I have never cared about anyone but myself and that I am hurting the kids by not letting him pick them up on Sundays- he asks at the last second and I usually have plans or he doesn't call until late on Sunday and they have school Monday. He can come see them anytime at the house but he refuses. I ask him not to bring ow to our son's grad he says he won't and that there is no ow- now during the last convo there was ow - so I don't know what he is thinking. I was nice and let him spew then told him I was sorry he felt that way. when he was done I asked if that was all and he said yes and hung up.


HELP!!!! why all this anger? I have been doing so good now he comes at me with this can anyone help me understand why? he hasn't seen the kids in weeks and hasn't seen the baby since she was born-

Please someone help!!!


Love,lisa
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Me:31
H:33
4 boys ages 12-4
35 weeks pregnant with our girl
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 (a new ow involved although he won't admit it)



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