i am trying my best to do that and i agree with everything you said. i hope you are right that it will end but i don't know. neither one of them has gotten a d yet but they are already living together and talking about getting married after the divorces are final. i am just going nuts with my h wanting our m to be over but still wants us to be best friends.

me-30
h-38
m-11 yrs
s-6
s-7
ss-13
h left-april 21,2007
found out of ea april 1, 2007