Ok CeMar...gonna point out lots of vagueness in your list.
1) Want your man, no reason needed. (ok this goes to desire what do YOU mean by "want"? "Want" is a vague term.) 2) Be horny. (This varies from person to person, what I consider to be feeling horny someone else may think is nothing but a passing urge. Horny is another vague term, just like "desire" or "want") 3) Like to LOOK at your mans body and have it turn you on. 4) Like to TOUCH your mans body because YOU want to touch it. 5) Like to be naked WITH him. 6) Want him to shower with you. 7) Love your OWN body and see yourself as a sexual Goddess. 8) Love to be SEXY and SEXUAL. 9) Want to kiss and french kiss every day. 10) Flirt with your husband. (flirt how? What do you mean by flirting...specifically?) 11) Be sexually adventurous with him. (Ok here we go again, what do you consider adventurous? To some adventurous is doing it with the lights on, to others...it's sex in public.) 12) Initiate sex. (How? Simply ask for it? By doing something physical? All of the above?) 13) When having sex, make sure it is obvious that YOU want him for sex. Ok...what do YOU consider to be obvious? She might think she's doing something that's obvious but you miss it. 14) Cuddle with him. 15) Tease him physically. 16) See yourself as his LOVER, not his wife, and not a mother. 17) Put HIM at the center of your life, not the kids, not the job, not ANYTHING else. 18) LOve every square inch of his body. 19) BJ's. 20) Want him to be romantic. 21) Initiate sex with him often.
You have several things on your list that are nothing more than vague CeMar...you need to get specific. If your W is truly LD (for whatever reason at this point) this list will seem completely undoable to her, unrealistic...or just flat-out overwhelming. I'm not saying you are unrealistic for wanting these things, but I would suggest you pick your top three things from this list and get specific about them....then COMMUNICATE them to your wife.
