Oh, I'm soooo jealous -- wish my H were doing all of this!

I think you guys will be fine; you've a lot of work to do though and you can't ever forget the lessons learned and the lessons you will continue to learn through this whole process.

Just keep up the good work & the effort to show her how much you love her and how much this means to you to get things back to good.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10