Cat, I'm curious about the ADHD. I sometimes wonder about my H. He has a very hard time focusing as well and I know that sometimes people with ADHD are drawn to things like gambling, etc.
Right now, the biggest problem I'm dealing with is that my H lies to avoid confrontation. We had a big blow up about it yesterday when I caught him in another lie that wasn't even about OW. He says he is working on the lying, but I think it's an illness.
Anyway, I wonder about things like mood disorder or ADD or somethign like that.
I have just started seeing a C again. She does help. H sees his, but wants to start backing off seeing him. We haven't been to MC since November because we seemed to hit a wall.
My next step may be to ask him to get further evaluated for a mood disorder. There is a test that he can take... some sort of EEG that identifies various imbalances in the brain.
I'm feeling hopeless again.
Anyway, thanks for your support. I'll have to get caught up on all your sitches.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
