Your wife's judgement is so stellar that she chose to have an affair and flip flop back and forth culminating in divorcing you on your birthday and yet HERS is the opinion that you hold onto as gospel truth?
Sheesh. What are you gonna do next, try to sell me some beachfront property in that lovely desert that you call home?
Preach it, sister.
This convoluted she-must-be-smart-or-otherwise what-does-it-say about-me-to-have-married-her thing bf has going on is weird.
It's not exactly news that even highly intelligent people can make bad judgments, have blind spots, their own prejudices, etc.
This is especially true for someone retroactively trying to justify something they feel guilty about.
Both BF and Mojo know better. Or at least Mojo does. I think.