You've changed A LOT since your first post. You are becoming stronger and more sure of yourself.

I can't tell you what she is really thinking/feeling, however, I think if you stay on the track you're on, you'll be fine. Just wait and see what "the letter" says and wait and see how things pan out.

I found that not talking R and just continuing on loving them is the best way. It's not always easy, you want to know what they're thinking & feeling NOW, but patience is the key.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10