I know, I know and that's what I promised myself before he left -- I'm just going to be supportive and loving to him while he's away. I think that was lacking in his first deployment which ended in an EA while he was there. I'm not going to tell him how S3 had nightmares last night and was crying out for daddy in his sleep. I'm just going to shoulder the bad stuff and stay positive w/ him. It's just harder than it normally would be in light of the D bomb in January & the EA, etc., but I guess I'm glad it happened that way or we would not be in the good place I think we are right now. He would be more likely to have another A if he had left and we hadn't worked through things when we did. I guess I just wish I had a bit more reassurance that things truly are ok, you know?
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
