Tuesday night the GF got home from work around 10:30. Her and I went for a walk outside for a bit and she seemed to be in a pretty good mood. When we got back from our walk, I brought up my friends wedding. I said to her, "Dave's wedding is on coming up in a few weeks and I would like if you would be my date." A little surprised, she said, "Sure." Since we would be staying a few days out of state, she said that she would need to check to see if she could get a day off of work. She told me she would check with her boss the next day (which was yesterday).
My GF is the bridesmaid in her friends wedding. When we were still together, she asked me if I would go to the wedding. Of course, I said yes. Then a few weeks later, she told me that her mom was no longer going to go to the wedding and since I wouldn't know anyone there, if I didn't want to go it would be OK. I responded with something like, "OK. If that is the case, I am not sure if I am going to go or not." A week or so later is when we had our fall out and she never brought up me going to the wedding again.
Anyway, after saying yes to going to my friends wedding (she knows my friend and some other people that will be there), she told me she would have asked me to her friends wedding but since I wouldn't know anyone there and that she would be doing the bridesmaid thing she didn't. I responded with, "It wouldn't bother me that I wouldn't know anyone there. Plus, I would really like to hear you sing at the wedding." She then said that she would talk to her friend about me coming to make sure it wouldn't be a problem. The wedding is only two weeks away. Before I went to bed that night, I said to her, "Thank you for coming to the wedding. It really means a lot to me."
I wake up yesterday feeling good about her saying yes to coming to the wedding with me. I am starting to feel better about the situation in general since we are spending more time together, getting along, and she hasn't made any comments about when she is moving out. Maybe things are turning!
Then last night she didn't come home. I knew she was getting out of work early at 6pm and was going to go out with some people from work afterwards. However, her not coming home at all last night and staying somewhere else bothers me. Especially, when things went so well with inviting her to the wedding the night before.
