C...I have a question, and maybe try to be the voice of reason alittle bit.
Your H is deployed in Irac, right...is he actually seeing combat or is he there is some other Capacity? The reason I ask, is maybe at times it wount be that easy for him to be in contact with you, I am sure there will be times that communication could be effected.
I know that its easier said then done, and how hard it is to read feelings when you are seperated as you are, but try and stay positive, he reacted well to your intimate email...maybe he know communication will be monitored in some way and doesn't want to show to much emotion...who knows.
Don't push him, keep things light, make him long to come home, to a happy stable home.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!