my h has got to be the biggest jerk there is. i asked him when he was going to get a lawyer since he wants this d so bad. he told me that he did not have the money for one. well my aunt had told me that she would help me with a lawyer if i needed the help. well my h said well we are doing this civil so we will work out the terms together give the lawyer the paperwork and my aunt can pay for it. please tell me he is joking. it is one thing for my aunt to help with a lawyer bc i have to fight my h in court to protect the kids and myself.but i am not just going to let her pay for it bc my h doesn't want to. what in the h*** is going on with him. i can not even believe that he even suggested that. the nerve of him. just when i think he can not be a bigger jerk he suprises me.


me-30
h-38
m-11 yrs
s-6
s-7
ss-13
h left-april 21,2007
found out of ea april 1, 2007