Penny: I'm in same boat kind of. H is deployed for a year. Thankfully we had things going in the right direction before he left; he's been gone now for going on 3 wks. Unfortunately, I don't know if he is still talking to OW/EA still or not. See my "need a dose of reality" thread as to communication, etc.
It's nice in the way that we don't have to deal w/ the day to day walking on egg shells, etc., but at the same time we don't have the direct contact to know exactly what is going on in their heads.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10