I wanted to add that my H was not in contact with me last year the way he has been since the end of March. If he was calling, it was to S16 first, and then maybe the girls but he always felt safe with S16 because H never flaunted OW/affair in my son's face, ever.

If there was contact with H, it was very limited via phone. He does not text message at all.

And for awhile last year, he would just come in to get the kids and leave.

Now total opposite here. I think the not drinking is helping him as well.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19