cat, this feedback is just what I needed to hear (though I don't know if it is good news or bad news). It somewhat validates what we have been experiencing and just knowing that other people have gone through something similar and triumphed is freeing.
Thank you for your input and please know that i will take your suggestions and advice to heart. This is scary, but the idea of not being a family is far worse. I did read The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands but will pick-up the other book today. My library of marital- self-help books grows daily.
Also, I wish you nothing but the best for your sitch. Do you find that you still have setbacks (relapses, so to speak) at this stage?
