Aud, Greetings! Just meandering across the tracks now taht I have a little bit of energy to see how you are doing. I can see the question marks from the other side of the tracks and know all too well that feeling! Just a thought....he has been struck with a lightning rod of remorse or he wouldn't be back with you. I don't think you will see signs of the "strike" anytime soon but eventually most likely will. You have followed your gut through this whole process and have not been wrong yet right? I mean even with finding out about the A's and all your "gut" was counseling you. Follow the gut oh wise one! Follow the gut. You are one sweet and strong woman and just know YOU are doing the right thing for all involved...If your H doesnt want to be part of the solution he will let you know.... BTW...I would be a little concerned with this thought of "A" not being a big thing...hopefully the therapist visits will "illuminate" the idea that is a BIG thing. Even in my circumstance I realize what a BIG thing it truly is... My thoughts are with you and hopefully I have given one ounce of what you have provided in my sitch...peace
