ERC and MC,
I too agree with you both how difficult it is not to have someone to share your day with. We are so lonely, and we know they have the comfort of the OP. MC is so right that we can not make them connect. Last night I was skimming the book "Not Just Friends" by Glass. There was a section on narcissm. I believe it so describes my H. He believes nothing is his fault and shows no remorse for anything.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon