Sent the following email, kind of leading but maybe not at all accusatory?

love you and miss you a lot, babe. We're all doing ok here. How are you doing? Haven't heard much from you as to how you are doing, etc. Miss talking to you every night over our before bed smokes \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10