Just realized that I asked the same question twice (about replay and depression happening at the same time) after RCR already answered the first time... Must be losing my mind...

Need to get back to being really detached as advised. Otherwise, I'm just setting myself up for yet another major disappointment, thinking that he's coming out of the tunnel and will drop everything to come running back home.

M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D