I can understand you are a bundle of nerves right now so I will keep this short.
Go to lunch without a load of expectations or assumptions. Just be open.
Remember that the only person you can control is you, so make sure you are in control of you.
Make sure you are wearing your new "jacket".
Remember that this person sitting across from you is not your enemy. The path she is embarking on may be your enemy, but she is not so far down it that she still can't see the fork where she started.
Be firm but loving with your heart open to your wife.
Listen to her.
You will be fine.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
