Sashaying thru Seperation III

[~Sol]

MC, this is what I have found out....as long as she is not being remorseful, and not having any R talks the she herself initiates, then she is just playing down her guilt, or hiding it. But not necessarily playing YOU.....I think she acts this way because she is still confused......and is "trying to make a happy home".

This is just me, but I would just go along with it, let her see that YOU are GAL, interesting, the whole DB thing.......

Until she shows some signs of being remorseful (and ending her A, getting back to the M, etc), she is still in the fog.

But that is just me. I have some resentful feelings about my W still, trust issues, etc. But I have been told those are normal.

I am trying to go with whatisis's advice and learn to be loving. Let our S's see what they will be missing. Hard to do, isn't it?? I have my bad days, but I know what I want out of this.

You and I are kinda in the same boat, our W's are still there, but I haven't been following up though with your sitch. She's still there at home with you?