Choc: Please don't go into the meeting EXPECTING anything and please don't go into the meeting already on the defensive. OK? If she asks for space, be calm, not defensive about it. You don't know exactly what she's thinking or feeling so don't ASSume anything.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10