Well, today is the day. We're meeting for lunch, and she's going to ask me for "space." Not only will I not agree to that, but if she thinks that I'm moving out, of my own house, she's nuts.
Interestingly, I went back to look for some old e-mails this morning, to see when the last time we went thru this was. Three years ago February (also the last time we ML )
The time before that? 3 years prior.
Before that? 3 years prior.
There seems to be a cycle of times when she feels restless.
When I get a chance, I may post some of those e-mails here. You will be stunned that we openly faced -- and committed to work on -- these exact same issues back then. Some people go thru their whole lives never even acknowledging their problems, must less communicating to their spouses, and committing to work on them.
We've done it 3 times since 2001, and yet we're now to separating or divorcing than ever.
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