Lil, My parents have a computer but they rarely use it...hopefully it's working. I thnak you so much for all your support...I am thinking about Niagara Falls ( good imagery as I was there this past summer and made plans to go back in August) and keeping this BB as a life vest.
Karen, thanks for checking in, esp with baby and all.
I feel I have become a stronger person since coming to the board...more defined and better able to handle crisis. My S12, who is very close with my father, and is an openly emotional child, told me that he won't allow himself to get too depressed if grandpa dies, as grandpa would not want that. Out of the mouth of babes, huh?