OK Frank - Tell us a little more about #6. I believe at the beginning, we need to give WAS some space and then as you suggest, grow into the couselor role. But are you suggesting that a person has to be pro-active in that role? Or just be available to assume that role when WAS needs it? If you think we are to be proactive, can you maybe give an example on how you did it?
PS - You may need a new thread soon.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
