so hard piecing, mark in uk

[mark in uk]

Thanks tough. Its just so hard. Al she seems to want to do is go out with these single mums. I have been on the late shift all this week, i have been meeting her needs with tidying up the house, helping with D5 and giving her space. Last night i asked if we could go out to the cinema next week, she replied that "we" meaning her "friends" dont know what they are doing yet. That hurts when it is me trying to save a family and these people come first in her life.

I know she needs space, i know she needs me to stop going on, last night i came home at 11pm, got into bed and just whispered, did you have a good day? she replied shut up and goto sleep. Yesterday, i work in custodial, we had a small riot on one of the wings, my arm was slammed in a door as i was attacked by 14 prisoners. To be quite honest i am lucky to be here. My arm has 2 hair line fractures, AND i have gone back to work next day on light duties. She has not even asked how my arm is!!!!!!!!!!!!

so my question is that i am having a hard time with.......

How by giving space and being so detached and getting on with life going to help with my marriage!???? shouldnt we be trying to go out and recconnect? our lease ends in 2 months!!! how can we save this???