Right now I have the time to look things over and see how its going. He will be gone for a while maybe till fall. I have a hard time because I know he is talking to them. and the OW thinks she has the upper hand. She is a manipulating person to the extreme but he has yet so see it. I like you knew my patience was wearing down and I didn't want to make the wrong decision. I keep telling my self to take some time and figure this out. It is so funny he calls and is nice and when he needs something he calls me. So no conscience???????Doesn't see anything wrong with this picture???? We are all so much a like and so are they it is so hard to figure that it can be so much alike in so many different marriages and we don't know each other. That really didn't make sense but it so weird that we are all in the same situation. He has returned her call and texted her according to the phone bill. I haven't said anything but will save this one till later. I told you on your thread that I agree this shall pass but it isn't moving fast enough so we can get through it. Thanks for advice and hang in there we are all in this together and support each other as much as we can......