The one thing everyone has suggested to me is make a list for yourself and know what you have ,assets and finacially just in case he does something stupid and File. What you have to do is take care of you and your D right now. He is not thinking of you guys it is all him. He may never file but you never know what they are thinking because it isn't the guy who you used to know its this new person. I know its not what you want but try and look out for you and your D. I always think of what we have and I like I'm telling you I am starting to do those things or at least think about it a little just in case it comes to that and I want to have a direction because you know they have thought about it or he wouldn't have 2 pages for you. Don't talk about it like yoyo said with him but have yourself prepared and it will surprise him. You are on the offensive...
I want you to know I'm here for you too. They just don't think at all not with a conscience at all. Hang in there and I hope I can help you but I know I can give your support no matter what you do....Good luck.