Quote:"What do you guys think? Is this just a backslide or is it more than that? Nops, I would especially appreciate your opinion, you've been such a motivating force to me in the recent past. I know H has read my email, but I did not get a reply today. Like I said, I really do not expect one."
Since you gave it a year, I would suggest something along the following lines.
"Hubby, I am sorry that I brought up divorce. I said I wouldn't do that, and I wish I hadn't. I would still appreciate it if you would consider my feelings on the porn. I am not trying to control you, I simply find the idea of it and your use of it disrespectful to me"
You can tell me if I am misreading, but it seems to me that you don't really want to throw in the towel yet. I hope that the above will help open up a dialog without you feeling like you are "giving in", yet again.
Please let me know what you think.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
