Heywyre I bet we all would like that type of cooperation from our respective spouse. W/M or what ever. He is willing to talk about it and sounds like he wants a solution/s too.
It isn't the marrital problems that depresses many posters. It's the lack of cooperation/movement/improvement that I see as the problem.
He just came into my home office and gave me a hug and said "my sweet wife, you have been such a patient girl, thank you"
^5 to your H.
I can hug my W, no problem. I don't think I can say the "sweet wife part." You deserve the "sweet wife" compliment.
