I guess I'd only tell H as much as I thought he'd react well to. I think that's a very interesting conversation you had with hero #1. He must care about your H if he's investing in you this way too. You still have serious reservations about heading up there, and I can totally understand that. My last move was so hard to decide on too. The first time I honestly didn't know which option (staying or going) was going to be better. It's so hard.
