Piecing - H still contacts OW

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Bumping this up, trying to get more responses from the first post.
rac, replied in your thread.
Astimegoeson, thank you for reminding me to focus on the good things.
I did give him the letter yesterday (mostly thanks, little "hope" for him to be more honest)
I went out with friends yesterday for a goodbye party. H was home. When I got home late, he thanked me for giving him that letter. I think he was quite happy that I thanked him for Mother's Day. But when I progressed to say "I want to ask you something.", he shutted me down and said, "he does not want to talk." (pause) "I don't know what you are going to ask. You know, it will end in a month anyway." "whatever you decide, you decide with your guessing. I will support you." I feel very resentful about another lie. He said before he would talk to me whenever I inititated. Now he shut me down. He is physically here, but just not emotionally to work with me. Someone tell me that I am askign for too much, too soon? I feel there is a time limit for me to end this before we leave so i can have closure. Otherwise, I will never feel at ease.
Please post if you have commnets (especially on my post yesterday)