Need Some Advice

[Grace_O]

I know and I'm sorry. Come here to vent or chat or whatever, it does help.

[Lissett]

please be prepared for this to happen. I know you don't need it and you don't want it.

Puffy said he would pay everything, and little by little he stuck me with the bills.

I said nothing, to show him that I was financially going to do this, since he complained about my bill paying skills.

But alas, it just meant more fun money with the ow and her kids.

So prepare yourself lovey, for the worst case scenario, even if it does not happen

[heatherbill]

Well fortunatly it was just a mistake. He is with a smaller bank and they put hold on your acct after a certain amount. SO the first payment didnt come out because it said there wasnt enough money when actually there was but it was being held adn the bank just never tried again after. So it was an honest mistake thank goodness. I really didnt think he would do something like that but with the alien he is lately ya just never know LOL thanks for all your responses.
Heather

[heatherbill]

Well today was our anniversary. It was a sucky day. I spoke with H over TM and he wanted to come and get something and I told him just to come get it after work cause I didnt want him in the house while I wasnt home. Then I changed my mind cause I really didnt want to face him today. Well he said he would just come get it after work. I asked him if he wanted me to drop it off at the place he is staying and then he said "do you not want me at the house?" and I said its a little hard for me today. He said yeah me too. I said "it is? why" he said you know what today is. I said well yeah but I dont understand why its hard for you, he said, Im human I have feelings.
He LEFT ME!!!! What the hell is his concern with our anniversary when he doesnt want to be married anymore. I just dont get it. CAn anyone share some insight?
Heather

[Going Solo]

My W was the same way with our anniversary a couple weeks back (jeez, already?). They are so lost they don't know what to think on the special days.

[inmyplace]

Yes. I can. He's human and has feelings. He gave you the answer.

IMP

[heatherbill]

I know he his human and has feelings, but if he doesnt want to be married why should our anniversary cuase him upset. i just dont understand whats up with that.
Heather

[Going Solo]

B/c it's a reminder that he's making the biggest mistake of his life when all he wants to do is forget and act reckless and free.

[Lissett]

Hi Heather,

Read around. Read up on some other's people situations.

MLcers get a little nutty on anniversaries and importannt dates. The guilt smacks the in the head. I love it

[heatherbill]

So I have part time job two or three evenings a week in addition to my full time day job. I started there at the part time job about 3 weeks ago. I havent had an evening to myself without the kids since then. I asked H to take the kids tonight so I could have an evening to myself as I dont have to work. Well can ya guess what he said? He said no, he has plans. I said that it must be nice to be able to make plans whenever he wants. He says he cant cause of my other job. Well he knows a week in advance of when I work, I have them other than that. He goes out and does what he wants when he wants. Must be nice to be him.
heather