Sometimes people can't settle down until they mention the elephant in the room.
Of course, the elephant isn't the problem. The problem is that the whole three ring circus is in shambles and picking on the elephant isn't going to fix anything.
Still, sometimes people can't settle down until they mention the elephant in the room.
Of course, focusing on the elephant is going to make it seem as though the bigger problems with the circus are less important to you.
Still, sometimes people can't settle down until they mention the elephant in the room.
And, if the problems with the circus were fixed the elephant might take care of itself.
Still, sometimes people can't settle down until they mention the elephant in the room.
And, taking down the elephant with the elephant gun might take down the whole circus for good.
Still, sometimes people can't settle down until they take aim at the elephant in the room.
I agree that it is not the right time to discuss a possible EA. But, if Choc must, the best thing to do is to say something factual about himself, once, then drop it:
"W, I believe you are having what I would consider to be inappropriate contact with another male. It hurts."
