My W has learned to hold her tongue a little more now, which helps a lot. But underneath this need to be honest is still a lot of fear, insecurity, anger and resentment, KWIM? Its ironic that honesty can become passive aggression.
Hmm...that is probably very true Cobra. I think I did use this honesty as a way to lash out. I knew full well it would hurt him but I did it anyways, justifying it, that at least it was the truth. Sometimes honesty is not always the best policy. LFL
