Not really. I guess, because this is my second marriage and I've already BTDT
Oh, I did not know this was a 2nd M. I have read some interesting research on multiple M's and it seems like people either never fix their own problems and continue to D many more times, or they fix their own stuff and find a happy 2nd M, or they are so petrified of having yet another failed M that they stay in an unhappy M because as you stated "I don't want to have to start all over again." Not that you are choosing the thrid option there, just throwing out some sociological research (which I tend to do now and then).
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I just feel I have a heck of a lot more to lose than to gain from leaving. And, if I have to trade all I have now just for sex, sorry, it's not worth it to me, regardless of the fact I am HD
I feel like I would have a heck of a lot more to lose too. So I guess that is good. I just have some HD days where I want to scream. But they pass. The problem is that they always come back. LFL
