Sorry for the letter everyone. It just feels like this “distancing” is making her withdraw even more. It’s strange. One minute she wants me to plan a mini vacation with the family in to weeks (June 2&3) and the next she is not hardly talking-to me. Nothing mean just not talking very much. She just had another session with her C. (if she is going). I am thinking about asking her if we can have some more joint sessions with my C. I need to somehow detach but I also want to break that force field around her. I’m I trying to do two opposite things? I feel she is holding back. But what? Is it over and she doesn’t want to say. If that’s so then why the vacation? I asked her out this Sat. just to go play pool. She has brought it up in the past that she used to love playing pool when she was younger. She back has been bothering her and she said she will see how she feels after her chiropractor appt, today. Also I don’t ever talk about her meetings with her C. Is this ok? I have told her in the past not to confuse my “giving her space” for not caring. But I feel if she wanted to talk about them she would. BUT……….Then again maybe she does not know how to start. Her I go again second guessing every thing
Any inputs? H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
