Hey girl -- just keep trying and step out of the box! I sent H a "what I would like to be doing to you right now" email that was totally out of character. He said his mouth dropped to the floor and he couldn't concentrate anymore thinking about what I had said \:\)

Anyway, now, with the call, you need to STOP and the second call, STOP!!!!! You are "needing" too much right now. Read the DB book again and just step back a little bit. Let things play out and just act like nothing is wrong w/ you guys. Just let things be and see what happens. Just love him, don't over-do it, and step back & see how things play out. You may be almost forcing him into being irritated/angry/thinking about things too much. Just let it be for awhile.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10