LFL, have lots of time to think these days after the boys go to bed \:\) Can't GAL much w/ H gone & the boys so don't think I'm too wierd for thinking about other people's sitch's as well as my own -- including yours.

Is part of it just boredom? And then you got the email from OG (we'll call him "other guy" since he's not really OM) and it awakens the excitement and you start thinking about what you had w/ him that you don't have w/ H and so now you are kind of (for lack of a better word) dwelling on that?

Neither of us are SAHM's, but I know I was stuck in the "mom rut." It's a hard place to get out of. It's hard to GAL when you have the kids to take care of and everything else that goes along w/ it. I'm not complaining necessarily, love my boys, but you know what I'm talking about.

And for you I guess it does come down to is that you seem to absolutely love your H and your SL is where it's lacking right? Are there other things that you could try to do to amp it up? Maybe not to the point of H being uncomfortable, but try to get it to some sort of happy medium?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10