You don't sound mean, and I appreciate your advice. And please know that -- other than sending the flowers to her work (which was really just a tactical move meant for OM) -- I'm just voicing these things HERE, to you guys, and not to her.
I understand that she needs to see strength right now.
The last two posts take a ton of sense to me -- this WASN'T how I courted her, and she WOULD be turned off by those things.
