How do I know if it is MLC

[bright 2 morro]

Hi All,

It has been a few days since I posted. I went out of town for a few days and left the kids with my H. Of course he went against my wishes and spent the whole weekend with them and the OW and her kid. On Friday night when the kids told me that I asked him not to do that and he did it again on Saturday. When I got home on Sunday he said to me it was inevitable because he was moving in with her that day. Well, that just floors me.

Does he really think that this is a good thing? Only knowing someone a month and moving in with her.

Then on Monday and Tuesday of this week he was crying to me not to move because he was going to miss the kids. Yesterday I signed the papers to sell the house. That was very tough. It made me sick.

He tells me that his intentions were not to go and find someone else. It just happened. So my reply was that he could have said no. Then no response.

I am so sick that someone could even want to do this. He backs out of responsibility any chance he gets. He wants nothing to do with me. I can not even help getting in the cheap shots.

Like today he said something about me making him look bad. My response (yes, a cheap shot) was No I think he was doing a pretty good job on his own.

I think I am pretty much done. I am not sure I can wait the upwards of 2 years for him. Without even any guarantees that he will even want to come back. That is the bad part.

I have a call into the lawyer to proceed on with the legal separation.

Any encouragement is helpful. Why should I wait (while taking care of myself) for that long? Do I not have a right to be with someone that makes me happy?