Choco I have to say I liked what Stigmata said about going at your W with flowers and such -that won't work. If she is anything like me, she wants to see you take back some control. Or get that control in the first place if it was never there. People have different theories on this whole thing. Some say ignore their bad behavior and go at them with love and kindness. I say that's just more BS. It's not authentic. You should be pissed! She needs to see you pissed. And not just pissed, but confrontative. I'd definitely discuss the A asap. Why would you ignore it? I just don't get that philosophy at all, although (ironically) my H seems to love it. LFL
