BTW, you have a W who is much much much more invested in your M and healing it than ANYONE I have ever seen post on these boards when possible separation and EAs are at issue. This is clear from your keystroke snooping posted on your other thread.
--She knows that figuring things out will take time. --She is willing to see a C. --She wants to give your M a chance. --She freely admits she cares about you and your feelings. --She is in it for the long haul, and she wouldn't be willing to try if she didn't want things to work out.
So, quit moping. You are way ahead of the game here, but you can easily give up your advantage by insisting that W be where you want her to be rather than where she is.
