Imagine you are starting to date her, would you press her for a commitment? "Look chicky, I'd like to take you dancing, but first I have to know if you will go out with me for at least 7 months and have sex after 4 months. Otherwise, I am not willing to invest in a night at the disco."
By all means, don't tiptoe. But, you don't have to keep repeating yourself. She has heard your message. You can hear her message.
Quit playing the victim. Every step of this is YOUR CHOICE.
The best chance for your M is to give her more space than you think she could possibly want while at the same time getting happy yourself. GAL, a great one at that.
