Oh, boy, did the D bomb rev me up!!! Not saying use the D bomb, just agreeing w/ NJ above.
Choc, you gotta settle down. Sit down, relax & THINK -- you have gone from one extreme to the other in ONE DAY. You got to where you guys are at over a period of 5 or 6 YEARS!!
She didn't say that she was moving out; she did say she would go to C. If she does end up saying she wants a separation and wants to move out, you may well be able to deflect that.
But, like NJ said, coming from the other side and what happened to me as the LD W, yes, I woke up and started moving and DOING to make my M a better place to be and it is completely different and BETTER! for all of what happened w/ the D bomb, etc. Did I like it at the time? No. Was it easy to get through? No. But in the long run, it's made our M better. That's what you need to focus on. Getting better. Not necessarily what is happening right this instant at every second. It's going to be a whirlwind now that you have decided to shake things up and get things moving. It's not going to happen overnight.
Keep your head straight so that YOU are in control of YOU and the sitch and the going's on !!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
