It takes us all varying amounts of time to get there, but it would seem that there usually needs to be a cataclysmic event that ultimately creates a change - good or bad. Consider that we all talk about the "BOMB" - well that is what it took for us to realise that our M's were REALLY that bad. And it caused a change in us LBS's.
BUT, it needs to be well thought out - and you have to be at a place of love and courage to do it. If nothing else, the good news is you are taking YOUR life back and the direction it is going and for me, that was huge. Scary as all get out, but huge.
Onward and upward...
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
