Need space translates to (I am finding myself interested in someone else, and I want time to explore them unencumbered).
Court your wife. YOU introduce some confusion of your own.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.