Hi, Choc.

Here is my interpretation.

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Indecision, but, need space.
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Need space translates to (I am finding myself interested in someone else, and I want time to explore them unencumbered).

Court your wife. YOU introduce some confusion of your own.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.